The third and final part, which includes thoughts on the area which is a hot potato. I have sought to present my thoughts with care and grace. If I have failed in that please let me know as I believe I have genuinely written what follows from a correct motivation.
Women
in Leadership
It
seems clear that women can’t hold the office of elder, but can hold the office
of deacon. Elders, as already discussed, are to be men. But, that does not mean
women can’t lead. They are able to be deacons, presuming they meet the criteria
of character in the Bible, and they are meant to teach, train and encourage
other women (Titus 2). It also does not mean that women
can’t be prophets, evangelists or teachers for example. We quite clearly read
of prophetesses in the OT and NT.
The following verses all show women leading in some way whether it be teaching, deaconing, missionary work etc. (Luke 24:10; Acts 18:26; 21:9; Rom 16:1-16; 1 Cor 11:5; Php 4:2-3; 1 Tim 3:11; Titus 2:3-5). So there is absolutely a place for women in leadership in the church.
The following verses all show women leading in some way whether it be teaching, deaconing, missionary work etc. (Luke 24:10; Acts 18:26; 21:9; Rom 16:1-16; 1 Cor 11:5; Php 4:2-3; 1 Tim 3:11; Titus 2:3-5). So there is absolutely a place for women in leadership in the church.
I found
Andrew Wilson’s blog posts on this issue very helpful (http://thinktheology.co.uk/blog/article/the-presumption-of-complementarianism
and http://thinktheology.co.uk/blog/article/twelve-words-twelve-interpretations-1-timothy-212)
and I will refer to some of his content as we go.
We are
called to obey scripture and, in 1 Timothy 2 and 3,
it is stated that women should not teach with authority or be elders. We don’t
have time to flesh out exactly what “teach with authority” means in this essay.
But, I think it ties very closely with being an elder and being the teacher or
pastor giving sermons weekly in a local church.
Back to the idea of obedience to scripture, if we believe that is the case then we should read 1 Timothy 3 and unless there is an obvious reason that it no longer applies, or was only relevant to one church at one time then we should believe it holds true today. Not only that, but 1 Tim 3 and Titus 1 are the only two places in scripture where the criteria for elders are spelled out explicitly. Surely that gives them greatest weight in the argument, unless we think God somehow forgot to tell us something. They are also very different contexts, city on the one hand, villages on an island on the other.
Back to the idea of obedience to scripture, if we believe that is the case then we should read 1 Timothy 3 and unless there is an obvious reason that it no longer applies, or was only relevant to one church at one time then we should believe it holds true today. Not only that, but 1 Tim 3 and Titus 1 are the only two places in scripture where the criteria for elders are spelled out explicitly. Surely that gives them greatest weight in the argument, unless we think God somehow forgot to tell us something. They are also very different contexts, city on the one hand, villages on an island on the other.
We
can’t base all we believe on history and tradition, but for nearly all of the
last 2 millenia, churches were structured with male only elderships,
presbyteries etc. We cannot be chronological snobs and think we are somehow
more enlightened or spiritual, that would just be arrogant and show more about
our cultural blindness than we care to admit.
Here is
a quote from one of the posts above which I think also backs up the argument
very well.
“If Paul felt able to (a) commend women deacons and
co-workers, and celebrate the truth that in Christ there is no male or female,
and yet also (b) urge that wives submit to their husbands, and women not teach
or exercise authority over men, then it would appear that he did not see (a)
and (b) as incompatible.”
The burden of proof
must lie with those wanting to have women elders as scripture seems to point
the other way.
I will end this
sub-section by stating that I would not go to the stake for this, although I do
believe it to be what scripture teaches, and that I also have some good friends
who love scripture too and would totally disagree with me.
Here are a couple of things that people like me need to think through to make sure we are being consistent:
1. If we have men who are not elders (in ours or any other church) preaching in our Sunday gatherings, then why will we not have women? It seems that preaching/teaching is the job of an elder. If we argue that men who are not elders sit under the teaching of the elders when they preach and so we allow it, then why can't women do the same, because what seems to be excluded in Scripture is women teaching with authority not teaching full stop?
2. If we argue that women can teach in other contexts such as Sunday School or Women's meetings, but not in the Sunday gathering, are we not somehow making the teaching of children and women less important?
3. How do we help women who are obviously gifted by God to fully realise and practice those gifts?
Maybe I will blog more fully on some of these one day.
Here are a couple of things that people like me need to think through to make sure we are being consistent:
1. If we have men who are not elders (in ours or any other church) preaching in our Sunday gatherings, then why will we not have women? It seems that preaching/teaching is the job of an elder. If we argue that men who are not elders sit under the teaching of the elders when they preach and so we allow it, then why can't women do the same, because what seems to be excluded in Scripture is women teaching with authority not teaching full stop?
2. If we argue that women can teach in other contexts such as Sunday School or Women's meetings, but not in the Sunday gathering, are we not somehow making the teaching of children and women less important?
3. How do we help women who are obviously gifted by God to fully realise and practice those gifts?
Maybe I will blog more fully on some of these one day.
Conclusion
Leadership
in the church is a role not to be taken lightly. It carries with it great
responsibility and many challenges. But, it is a role for which there is much
grace in Christ. Church leadership should be done in humility, with a
servant-heart and desire to know and love the Lord more.
Leaders
should be seeking to see the church grow numerically and in spiritual maturity.
I
believe churches should be structured with a team of elders and a team of
deacons. I also believe (as per previous essay) that decision making ultimately
lies with the elders. The only office and function in a local church that I
believe to be male only is the office of elder. I would whole-heartedly
encourage and expect churches to have female deacons.
The
qualifications for these elders and deacons is quite explicit in Scripture.
These should be taken seriously. Men and women should be tested accordingly
before taking up either office; their relationship with the Lord, their family,
the world and their self-awareness all come into that.
I would
expect that the regular preaching in the church be done by the elder(s) who is/are
the pastor(s), with the other elders taking up the rest of the responsibility.
A book I heartily recommend for those in leadership is "Fruitful Leaders" by Marcus Honeysett.
A book I heartily recommend for those in leadership is "Fruitful Leaders" by Marcus Honeysett.